Do you have the thrifty gene? Not the “thrifty genotype” that’s another story for a different blog, but rather the innate desire to be frugal? I do and I certainly hope my children do, too. Signs that you have the frugal-kind of thrifty gene…
- You maintain a minimalist wardrobe
- You re-use Zip-loc bags
- Forget about napkins, paper towels, Kleenex and other unnecessary paper goods with the exception of toilet paper
- Use the library
- Enjoy free entertainment
- Cook from scratch and brown bag it daily
- Seek to reduce water usage and electricity
These may sound like confessions of a cheap-skate, which perhaps it is, but it is also a list of habits and a philosophy that I hope to share with my children.
There is so much want, desire and greed in the world. So many people “thrive” and try to survive by chasing after the next big innovation, but what about maintenance? What about using what we have? Being grateful and counting our blessings. I, personally, believe life can be so much more when we live below our means and seek and savor the things in life that are priceless.
I know that my children will reap the benefits of frugality in mind, body and spirit as we continue to model ways to avoid waste by- not only preaching- but practicing the differences between “wants” and “needs” and being greedy versus grateful. At the ripe age of 3 1/2, I have already witnessed my children using this language and even discussing a need versus a want with each other; it makes my heart smile.
What are the non-monetary benefits of frugality?
- Being green and friendly to the environment
- Reduces waste
- Keeps priorities in check
- Fosters relationship and community
- Keeps life simple
Those last two are what keeps me from drifting from my thrifty gene. The minimalist mindset reduces the number of choices, keeping it simple and crafting an environment where the healthy choice is easy. It also minimizes distractions so we can build true relationships that will last a lifetime.